In today’s society, having children seems like the most natural thing in the world. But what if you don’t want them? Then you’re bound to face questions — something Tess Meijer knows all too well. In this piece for BEDROCK, she shares her personal story. “I still remember how, as kids, we used to play ‘moms and dads.’ Our favorite game: taking care of a doll or a classmate, pretending to give medicine, and using a spoon as a thermometer.”